<>Skeptical Inquirer magazine criticized the lack of falsifiability and testability of these claims.[47] Critics have asserted that the evidence provided is usually anecdotal and that, because of the self-selecting nature of the positive reports, as well as the subjective nature of any results, these reports are susceptible to confirmation bias and selection bias.[48] Physicist Ali Alousi, for instance, criticized it as unmeasurable and questioned the likelihood that thoughts can affect anything outside the head.[1]
<>Now if a little voice tells you that you won’t get what you want to get by imposing the LOA principles to it, it doesn’t mean you have bad thoughts, it might just be you subconscious who knows what is written in your destiny and knows this is not something for you to get. There again: read Florence’s book, there are good examples as how to deal with this. Like lets say you want to meet a girl. With the LOA you’d start shaping her: I want her to be blond, tall thin, nice College graduate etc… And your little voice would tell you: “this is never going to happen”. Well it might be true it will never happen. But if like Florence you’d say: “I want to me the perfect girl, the one which is mine by divine selection”. Well there you might attract her and not have that little conflicting voice show up. Because you are not imposing your will but just calling on what is in store for you.
<>We can easily manifest money into our lives, or anything else for that matter, by expecting it to come to pass. Wishing and hoping doesn’t work. The Law of Attraction is founded on an expectation of a specific outcome. It revolves around the potential positive or negative energy that a given thought takes in your mind. When you expect the worst to happen, it often happens. When you expect the opposite, that often occurs as well.
<>“It’s been a year since I met my soul mate- and it just gets better and better. It all began when I came along to the groups and managed to distract myself so much with the good in my life (through daily appreciation and meditation) that I literally bumped into him in the street. It seems the phrase ‘you find love when you are not looking for it’ may be true. Yes, I wanted to meet someone but it seems that when I dropped my obsession, I met him.”
<>“I was doing my weekly food shop and had driven to the supermarket and parked in the car park. After doing my shopping I returned to my car and it wouldn’t start, the key turned and all of the electronic functions such as the radio and lights were working but the engine did not turn over. I started to feel overwhelmed thinking about everything that I needed to do and how should I resolve this, who to call for assistance etc.. Then I thought, knowing everything that I know about that Law of Attraction, that I would spend ten minutes doing the Focusing Process on my car working and that then I would decide what to do. So I took out my notebook and wrote in the middle ‘Car working perfectly’. Then I wrote things that matched the feeling of that such as ‘My car starting perfectly earlier’ and ‘A new battery having been fitted recently’. I also texted a friend who is into the Law of Attraction and asked them if they could envision my car going perfectly and they wrote back that they had focused on that. After completing the Focusing Process I turned the key and the car started first time! I knew that Source energy and the angels had most definitely helped me with this.”
<>In short, it can be said that love is an amazing feeling when two people mutually fall for each other. It is all about respecting and reciprocating each other’s feelings in an accepting manner. Having a clear state of mind about what kind of relationship you would like to establish with the other person, you can make the law of attraction and love work for you.
<>Stop looking at the horizons in front of you and feeling overwhelmed. Look at the horizon behind you. It’s just as far and infinite. Think about how far you’ve travelled already. And, allow yourself a small tear of pride. Give yourself a pat on the back for the efforts you’ve made, the roads you’ve travelled. The universe thanks you for being part of this amazing story we’re all creating together.
<>Sorry, for my bad english (Not my mother tongue). I will use LOA for this also, one day… Anyways, I have some confusion. I have very nice girl in my class. She is total calm, peaceful, adorable etc. She is not too great by looks but her nature is very good. So, I want that girl in my life. I saw her daily. In comments, you have said, let the other person go>> On this point, I have doubt. I mean, so I dont think abt her? or think abt her in a positive way (Visualization) like, she is talking with me in good language or taking care of me. Plz be specific. I am truly dedicated and hard working person. Please give instructions how to attract. How many times (Hours) per day Visualization is enough. I really love my self and happy all the day.
<>“Feeling really inspired after attending an event, I sat down and decided my year would be dedicated to furthering my experience within the music industry. A month previous to this I ‘randomly’ thought about a friend I hadn’t seen in roughly 9 years. After attending the inspirational event on Sunday, I bumped into the friend I hadn’t seen or spoken to in years on Tuesday and found out he worked at a music record label. Wednesday we had lunch, and he’s been really helpful in helping me pursue my music related interests ever since.
<>Shelly Bullard, MFT is a Marriage and Family Therapist, Love Coach and Spiritual Teacher. She's the author of the eBook: How to Become the Most Attractive Version of Yourself which she offers for FREE (click here to receive your free copy). She's also the instructor of the popular mbg courses: How To Become The Most Attractive Version of Yourself & How to Attract a Partner Who's Ready for Deep, Devoted Love. Shelly believes that when you access the experience of Love within yourself, your relationships become deeply fulfilling and you become the person you’re meant to be. She was named the “Love Guru” as one of the 100 Women to Watch in Wellness by mindbodygreen, and her deepest passion is living and practicing love and relationships as a spiritual path. To learn more about how she can help you create more love in your life, visit her at: shellybullard.com.
<>When I decided that I needed a car, I was just given a great little car a few weeks later by a friend. It runs well, is road taxed and has a MOT. The only attention it required was a replacement window wiper and it had a noisy exhaust that needed looking at. I purchased a satnav online and have never used one before. I didn’t understand the instructions and it was set to Albania (I live in England)! I couldn’t get it to work. I started affirming and writing on my universal list that all would be easy for me with the car and that operating the satnav would be a breeze and it will open up my life and be great fun. Once I felt ‘better’ and in a good space I put my satnav in the car and just started driving. A short way from my house I saw a mechanic was open on a Sunday – I pulled up and they said they would look at the car but weren’t able to fix anything on Sundays. The two men were friendly and they hoisted the car up and spent 20 minutes adding a bolt to the noisy exhaust, fitted a new window wiper, taught me how to use the satnav and set it to London. When I went to pay – I was practically bursting with joy because I couldn’t believe just how everything had got sorted and I had left the house with no plans on how this was even going to get a solution! The icing on the cake was they only charged me £13 which was the price of the window wiper. Being in a good space really determined the outcome I think.”
<>“I had got to the point when I thought all of this Law of Attraction stuff was rubbish, nothing good was manifesting… And then I discovered your work about three years ago- and I keep coming back to it. I have ‘streamlined’ most of my self-help books- because I just don’t need them anymore- your work has summarised the best of everything I ever read. I feel a lot more confident and freer about myself since doing the practices- friends have commented on how much more attractive I look and I feel like I’m living the life I always dreamed of living in my twenties now; twenty years later. More travel, more fun, feeling happy to be alive- it’s like a new life. I also would call myself a confident person now whereas before I was shy- for thirty years. I had resigned myself that this couldn’t change as it seemed so much a part of me- but it did change. What I love about your techniques is they put you into the position to attract whatever you need, so some ‘confidence building’ opportunities came after I had done a Universe List. Anyway- lots to share. See you at the group sometime.”
<>Thanks Mukul but you don’t get the full story here. I’m working on LOA for years and all I’m asking myself are basic questions after I found some flaws in it. I’m questioning certain principles because I managed to attract all the little things I wanted but not the big ones in which I strongly believed. As for the LA trip I used to be there for Christmas just because I could go and afford to pay for the trip. Once this possibility got reduced I can’t attract this anymore as no other possibility else than paying for my trip with my money shows up. There’s no LOA here just pure cause and effect: you want a holiday you pay for it, nobody offered me a trip, nobody invited me, I didn’t win any trip…No I have to pay for it, that’s mathematical.
<>And thе list continues fоr manifestations, mу оthеr wiѕh gоt completed magically аѕ I hаd a desire fоr a magical relationship with a friend оf mine, ѕinсе due tо ѕоmе misunderstanding thе оthеr wаѕ nоt keeping in touch аnd hаd terminated thе friendship thоugh whоѕе recovery wаѕ vеrу dicey аt оnе point оf time. But уеѕ Universe iѕ ѕо great аnd powerful thаt it listens tо оur vibes аnd intentions with purity аnd gratefulness whiсh matters thе most.
<>I am so excited. Today is my first day of my 21 day journey to attract a specific person into my life. Yesterday I spent the day mentally preparing myself for this journey. I cleaned out my space and room to give me even more of a peace of mind. I also completed some mundane tasks that I had to in order to ensure my highest vibration. (Don’t want life’s minutiae to bring me down :)) Today was a great day to say the least. Better than I thought my first day was going to be. I did have a brief moment of doubt and a pang of negativity halfway through the day. I am aware of it and can only improve on it tomorrow. Really interesting side note though. I had one of the best days professionally. My boss took me aside and told me how smart I was and offered me more positions. I got repeated complements about my looks for coworkers and others. It was a great day! I know that this is long but I hope someone reads it. I really want the universe to know what it has done for me.
<>Wow Robert I love this article. Visualize the specific money you desire. (Say $10,000) truly feel the emotion of having it now. Most important be grateful to the Universe for providing it, the use the Law of Detachment. Let it go to let it flow, do not worry where or when it will arrive, those are feelings or fear and anxiety. Trust the Universe. Great advice can’t wait to use Step 4.
<>Often times what you experience in others are perfect reflections of thy self, in some beautiful (and not so)  way. So it’s important to ask the questions — “What can I learn from this relationship about myself?  What here could even be symbolic about ME?”  Dealing with a bully doesn’t mean you ARE a bully — but might truly be a reflection of a fear you need to work at, (since bully’s are just small and fearful).  So be open to it.  If you experience it, you own it…somehow.
<>For one of a million reasons, we feel like we can’t be ourselves. We long to be. We just want to move through the world as we truly are, without the masks. This is especially true when it comes to relationships. If you asked someone to make a list of what he wanted in a partner, I imagine ‘loving me for who I am’ would near the top of anyone’s list, or at least anyone who wants a real, authentic relationship.
<>Gabriel’s ‘Path of the Heart’ 3-Day Seminar is a fun, interactive and safe space for you to learn how to relate to others in a more conscious, real and heart-directed way. You’ll also learn several Emotional Self-Mastery tools that will help you create a new vision for your life that is in greater alignment with your core values and deepest desires of your heart.
<>So fast forward to today, my life is exactly the way I had been visualizing. (I had horrible luck when I wasn't seeing what I wanted in my mind). Now today, I won't tell you what exactly is going on but it all came 100% true. And so true that I am actually tired of it now and want to just Hang out with them without really Caring about my outcome. Now it's doubled…There are PLENTY more stories I could tell you but you can message me if you want specifics. I know for a fact this stuff works. It is almost creepy.
<>Hi Geoff! Thank you for your reply. I do understand the chapter is about getting an ex back. However, what I meant to ask is whether the same rule applies if the person you want to manifest a relationship with is someone you haven’t previously dated. You see I talk to him everyday and he often tends to talk about the girl he is with or unknowingly tells me how I mean a lot to him but only as a friend. And every time that happens I just can’t stop negative thoughts of fear and doubt cropping up in my mind, thus making it difficult for me to let go. So I want to know if I should maintain some distance, perhaps talk less often. The only issue here is that there isn’t really any problem between us. He knows I love him and we kind of sorted it out a couple of months back and have continued to be best friends. I don’t quite have a reason to suddenly cut down on talking to him and I am sure if I do that he would want to know why.
<>One of the coolest things that has happened, is that I needed some money. So I decided to use the law of attraction consciously this time around. I was really excited about it, and the money kept coming in, so I thought the law of attraction was working. But then I got a bill, and I was really confused why that happened. So I thought about making a new list, and take a look at the old list that I had made a couple of months earlier.
<>“I am enjoying a wonderful relationship with a man who may quite possibly be ‘the one’ – and that’s after being single for 13 years. Certainly a big factor was due to regular use of your techniques and your romantic love workshop. I got myself into a position of not needing anyone yet at the same time anticipating the excitement of love – which I learnt was key – and this was accomplished through your teachings. I got on with my life and spent time on my interests and my career and with friends, whilst using your ideas to increase my expectation of love. Yes, there were some times of feeling lonely or doubtful, but I kept on going, supported by the success stories and others at your group, until I met him a through a ‘random’ invite and it’s been lovely ever since.”
<>“I was sitting having breakfast in my garden before work on Monday, and doing my appreciation list, being grateful for all the things I love about my garden and any time I spend in it. Also how easy I find it to get into a higher vibration when I’m surrounded by plants and getting my hands in the soil. I began to think about how amazing and enjoyable it would be to write articles about gardening as a career. For some reason I started to think about Vita Sackville-West. I don’t know much about her except that she was a novelist in the 30’s/40’s and had a big garden and wrote magazine articles about it. I started picturing myself doing something similar. Later that day, after having lunch with a colleague he wanted to go to a bookshop. We walked in front on me on a display table was a book of all of Vita Sackville-West’s magazine articles about gardening. It wasn’t even a display about gardening- everything else was about war or politics. If I had gone looking for that book I would probably have never found it. I have taken it as a nod from the Universe to follow my instincts and start writing about my garden.”
<>Loved your kindle book! It’s given me hope and most importantly a sense of serenity which I haven’t had since my breakup I’m afraid. Moving on is never as easy as one thinks. People tell you to go out with friends, have fun etc…But how does one go out and “have fun” when all restaurants, bars, lounges, clubs or car radios play music and music is the last thing you even want to listen to when your heart is breaking in a million pieces. So that alone, prevents one from moving on peacefully. But your book…I don’t know, just gives one hope. It is easier (at least for me) to “let go” knowing that getting back with the love of my life is possible. Frankly, moving on with hope, regardless of the result, is so much healthier than without it. So for that alone thanks! Now my question :))… I haven’t see my ex for the past two months. He’s very very reluctant to speak to me, and the very limited email exchanges we have had since the breakup have been cold (on his end) at best, though he does reply everytime. I know he is hurt and dealing with it in his won male way I guess…We are thousands of miles away from each other and I want to manfiest spending christmas together. Is is advisable to manifest a certain date? Does that give it more power, or takes away from manifestation? I dont’ want to be obsessive about it, I want to be easy about it, but I must say that this Xmas was supposed to be special for us and I would love for that to be the case eventough it is around the corner. It just seems that manifesting an ex back is almost more difficult than manifesting a specific person you know but have never had a relationship with…Probably because of all the baggage and history. So anyway I just wanted to know if a specific date is ok? Thank you so much :))
<>I’ve been in this situation many times until I realized why things went wrong and why some things didn’t last for me. I didn’t invoke into my subconscious mind. I kept my affirmations with the universe. Once I finally set it in stone, it became better and better. A strong will and a mindset it started transforming for me. I had money issues, unpaid bills, and I was on the verge of breaking down when I started reading and getting mentoring. All of a sudden after a week I was kept saying to myself ” Well, I will receive good news today.” Little did I know I received a letter in the mail telling me that 2000 dollars will be transferred to my bank account because of payback they owed me. I called to make sure to see if it was true. I got the whole run down, and I was in tears. The person who was assisting me was about to get off the phone with me asked is there anything I can assist you with anything else? I said, “Yes, I would like to thank you and hope you have a wonderful day.” Baffled as the call person was they replied with, “Your very welcome and thank you for the kindness I can go home with a smile on my face.” Hung up and at that moment, I realized for sure the Law of Attraction worked for me. Paid off the bills, let my husband know not worry about it I got it all taken care of. From the money left over got the kids a few things and I felt like a million bucks walking through the store thinking, “Hey this is awesome, I can afford it and not say no my kids finally.” I love the feeling not to worry anymore about it, but I love the feeling of knowing the universe has my back. I even got a small talisman on my necklace with a real four leaf clover in it. Every time I kiss it or look it at it reminds everyday nothing is impossible. I am thankful for it all and most important I can attract anything I want. It’s not stopping me here; more goals are in the works. I have no more fear. Thank you, Robert, you really changed a life here. I am applying it to push it further to achieving bigger and better goals.
<>Nice to see you around here again! Thanks so much for your comment and so glad you liked the post. You make an excellent point about how we can sometimes make ‘money’ the how as there are lots of ways we can experience the things we think can only come through money. That is great you have a routine that makes you feel good…that repetition is often a key to really reconditioning our minds. That makes perfect sense and is exactly what we want to accomplish…feeling the feelings now as if what we want is already here.
<>But! Apart from being commercial stuff it’s underlying intention is to motivate people to do stuff. If you imagine real hard that you are getting a jet plane for your birthday, well it probably wont happen unless you are friends with Bill Gates. But if you really want to have 100 new RSS subscribers it’s not bad to really want it and to think about it because it will drive action. You might not be aware of it but action is what produced your results, thinking about them just pushed you to work harder.
<>After watching the world’s greatest magician, David Copperfield, perform on television in Malaysia, Kabir found his calling to be a magician at 6 years old. Growing up, his passion grew and he could no longer keep it as a hobby. A copy of The Success Principles found its way to his hands and he was clear more than ever that he wanted to become the Malaysian David Copperfield.
<>I want to attract my boyfriend using the LOA to marry me. I and my boyfriend are in a long distance relationship since last three years. He has proposed his love to me three times but he never agrees for marriage due to his family issues. But I love him a lot and want to marry him only. Can I make him change his mind into marrying me. Please help me !!!!
<>And thе list continues fоr manifestations, mу оthеr wiѕh gоt completed magically аѕ I hаd a desire fоr a magical relationship with a friend оf mine, ѕinсе due tо ѕоmе misunderstanding thе оthеr wаѕ nоt keeping in touch аnd hаd terminated thе friendship thоugh whоѕе recovery wаѕ vеrу dicey аt оnе point оf time. But уеѕ Universe iѕ ѕо great аnd powerful thаt it listens tо оur vibes аnd intentions with purity аnd gratefulness whiсh matters thе most.
<>Completely out of nowhere I was inspired to look for my favourite breed of dog on a rescue website – it turns out that bull terriers have several rescue charities that deal with just that breed. I felt completely inspired so I filled out the application as soon as I found the website and just said ‘any dog in need would be ok for me’. I wrote on my universal lists everyday that the most ideal dog would come to me with ease and joy, so I really started to believe that this would be the case.
<>“I had been in some emotional pain over a relationship, and wasn’t sure what to do about it. It was a familiar pattern, and one which had caused me to totally avoid relationships for years if I’m honest. What your one-to-one appointments have done for me is to get me to rise above these ways of thinking and feel strong in my life. I am more secure than I have ever been, and your techniques do exactly what you said they would do. No false promises there. I’ve started dating someone again and I’m actually enjoying it- it’s a whole new quality of relationship. I will keep you updated. Thank you.”
<>Instead, Louise says you can transform your life by staying positive. "You have to start saying things that you feel really good about yourself. 'I love who I am. I love life. Life loves me. It's going to be smooth and easy. Life works for me.' And you just start doing that—it's planting seeds. You're not going to get it the first day, but you plant a seed and you water it and you continue the affirmations, and things start to shift and change in your life."
<>When you understand the answers to these types of questions about manifesting your soulmate, your mind and heart begin to focus on trying to find love that is based on true mutual understanding and excitement. You can do all kinds of creative techniques to bolster the designing of your life partner. For example, Law of Attraction experts recommend daily visualization exercises in which you conjure up a vivid sense of what your life partner would be like. Meanwhile, you can also create a dream board that represents all the traits you’re looking for and your image of how this relationship will improve your life.

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