<>“I heard about your coaching though a friend and signed on immediately, to help with my acting career initially. Although I had been a bit of a ‘self-help’ junkie and had given up on all that (I spent a huge amount of money on attending groups and reading books which were ‘all talk’ and got me nowhere), seeing the dramatic positive changes in my friend got my attention. She referred to you as her ‘secret weapon’ and suggested I signed on- so I did. After all, her life had changed in terms of getting a successful new relationship and career, amongst other things. I started the coaching and to cut a long story short- recently, two scripts were delivered to me which ‘ticked all the boxes’ on the type of roles I wanted. I auditioned and got the best part of the two.
<>“I was doing my weekly food shop and had driven to the supermarket and parked in the car park. After doing my shopping I returned to my car and it wouldn’t start, the key turned and all of the electronic functions such as the radio and lights were working but the engine did not turn over. I started to feel overwhelmed thinking about everything that I needed to do and how should I resolve this, who to call for assistance etc.. Then I thought, knowing everything that I know about that Law of Attraction, that I would spend ten minutes doing the Focusing Process on my car working and that then I would decide what to do. So I took out my notebook and wrote in the middle ‘Car working perfectly’. Then I wrote things that matched the feeling of that such as ‘My car starting perfectly earlier’ and ‘A new battery having been fitted recently’. I also texted a friend who is into the Law of Attraction and asked them if they could envision my car going perfectly and they wrote back that they had focused on that. After completing the Focusing Process I turned the key and the car started first time! I knew that Source energy and the angels had most definitely helped me with this.”
<>Sure, you may have your fights, disagreements, etc.. I am not talking about creating some ‘perfect’ relationship where you never experience conflict or get annoyed by each other. I am talking about a relationship that feels right to the core, that doesn’t have all this ‘stuff’ in it that we really don’t want, but put up with because we think we have to.
<>Sometimes this can be the hardest part of the Law of Attraction to grasp because when there's a person we love or are attracted to, he/she is all we can think about. We think the solution is in using the Law of Attraction to get the person to love us or notice us. But the Law of Attraction is about you – your thoughts, your feelings, and your vibration.
<>For one of a million reasons, we feel like we can’t be ourselves. We long to be. We just want to move through the world as we truly are, without the masks. This is especially true when it comes to relationships. If you asked someone to make a list of what he wanted in a partner, I imagine ‘loving me for who I am’ would near the top of anyone’s list, or at least anyone who wants a real, authentic relationship.
<>Additional to reading your very helpful posts I used to do the Soul Call Guided Meditation every now and then like you suggested in this post. It helped me keep my heart open and believing in the magic of everything that can be, it made me downright excited and tingly in my heart about the future. Unfortunately it is not available anymore so I wanted to ask if it is somehow possible to have access to it again? I tried a lot of other meditations but never got even a similar feeling afterwards.
<>That was about the time my girlfriend Charise walked in the door with her arms full of Costco boxes. She’d thought of everything: diapers and formula for the girls, dinner for the next week, and even enough cash to keep the electricity and water on. That is the moment that has defined my #RelentlessPursuit. That is the moment I Hustle and grind for. 
<>“I started applying the Law of Attraction techniques more consistently about two months ago. On a daily basis I have been meditating, making a written list of things that I appreciate and doing the Focusing Process. During this time several areas of my life have positively transformed including getting a new job and my long term partner proposing to me, with both things remarkably happening within the space of a couple of weeks! I also feel much more appreciation for my life in general and there have been several great more day to day experiences such as going for three different meals out and getting given free courses and drinks (as they apologised for a delay in service which I didn’t even really notice as I was having such a lovely time). My fiancée and I are now wanting to attract a lovely home in the country to move in to together and given the other positive experiences I’ve had with the Law of Attraction I feel confident that we can do this!”
<>Next, we will give you a PROVEN 90-days MANIFESTATION PLAN that you will follow step by step and that only requires 20 minutes a day to design the life or your dreams...You will pick one of our "Law of Attraction" Meditations on a daily basis and listen to it 10-20 minutes the morning before you start your day. If you really serious about changing your life, repeat this 10-20 minutes at night...
<>That week I sold everything we owned on Craigslist and filed for divorce. I took the money I made from our belongings to pay for first and last month’s rent on a really tiny, super-shitty two-bedroom apartment. I had just enough left over for one more month of rent and a few groceries. That was all the money I had in the world: I didn’t even have a bank account. My sister convinced me to get on food stamps, just until I got on my feet, and though I cried when the case worker took my story, I knew I had no choice. I applied for every job I could find, but interviews were few and far between. When the second month came and my rent money was gone, I sold my wedding rings on Craigslist for a fraction of their value; enough for one more month’s rent. When the women came to pick up my rings, she looked around our little apartment at my twins running around in their diapers and said, “I don’t want to know. Please don’t tell me the story.” She didn’t want my “bad luck” giving her new wedding rings negative juju. 
<>“I began appreciating the best of my past relationships and also began doing the techniques I had learnt from you about attracting new love. Things shifted quickly: a new waiter had started at my favourite cafe and we were enjoying some great conversations – he was just my type, too. More than ever and all over the place, I began noticing more people who were my kind of partner – and they seemed to like me too. And on my way home one evening, as I was mid-affirmation and feeling very romantic I looked down and there were rose petals everywhere, all across the pavement I was walking on. I was outside the Royal Opera House and thought ‘wouldn’t it be nice to go there’. Soon after – and this is my reason for sending the success story – I met my ‘someone special’ at a friend’s birthday gathering and for our first date he bought me tickets to the Royal Opera House!”
<>“I first attended your groups (and two of your workshops) about four months ago. My life changed a little bit within just a few days, which was exciting: I sold my house (which had been on the market for over a year) and got an unexpected payment of money. But only recently it’s like a switch ‘flicked’ and I now understand directly what I learnt, in other areas of my life. I love the simplicity and clarity of your teachings – they get straight to the point. What I would say to everyone experiencing doubts or asking questions like ‘when’s it going to happen?’ – is to keep on going, doing the techniques anyway every day, even if you don’t feel like it and even when you’re not seeing any evidence of change – because positive change will happen. On a manifestation front, I’m finding that new opportunities are coming to me (including two well-paid freelance jobs), I’m dating more… And I’ve let go of an addiction that was really getting in the way of my life. But it’s the feeling of enjoying my life that is with me much of the time that I’m thankful for most of all. Daily prayer (Universe List) and giving thanks is the key to keeping me in a high vibration and a consistently good mood.”
<>I do not believe so at all as I see many parallels between traditional religious views and the Law of Attraction. My personal view is that God creates through us…and it is our connection to God (or the universe/spirit guides/angels/etc) that allows creation to flow easily and pleasantly. In my opinion, our connection is evidence through our feelings, and the better we feel, the more connected we are.
<>We already know that the Law of Attraction can be used effectively… and the positive impact that embracing the law and replacing all negative emotions with positive mind-affirmations can have on what you see in your life. However, there are several common traps that people can fall into when they are trying to apply the rules of attraction to their love lives.
<>That night, I laid on the cold hardwood floor in our living room, my hair matted to the side of my head with tears that had finally run dry from my own dehydration. The only thought that floated in my semi-conscious brain was, “How the hell can I do this?” I’d tried so hard to think of a plan, anything, but nothing came, except that question over and over again. It seemed completely impossible. Yet somehow in that moment survival mode also kicked in, and with it came even more questions. Of course we’d have to move right away, but where? I didn’t have family who could take us in. And we’d need to sell everything we owned, but how? And I’d need a job, but doing what? And how could I afford to work when daycare would take up most of my salary?
<>No, not psychic 🙂 I think a lot of people can relate to this, so you are certainly not alone in that! I think that was a really great decision..focusing on ourselves, recharging and what have you is one of the most effective ways to let love in our lives from an attraction perspective. The better you feel about yourself and life overall, when you are ready to get back in the game, you’ll meet people for sure. Relinquishing that control is key..not always easy but it makes the process so much easier when we don’t try to micromanage the process of infinite creation with our puny little brains 🙂 Thanks so much for sharing your thoughts!
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<>For many of us, it’s extremely difficult to switch from the mindset that we have lived our whole life to the one that we can continue to live upon, without some extra help. That help can be found in other LoAers, motivational speakers, hypnosis and other tools like vision boards ans wish lists, but the main thing is that we want to make the change, and to act upon it.
<>I had also been teaching my friend the Law of Attraction as her landlord had given her notice on her apartment as he was selling. I told her to focus on what she wanted and not what she didn’t want. She only has a low paid part time job at the moment and also has a small dog and stays in a very nice area so her fear was to move out of the area and possibly end up in a less desirable area and most landlords don’t allow pets. I told her to write a list of everything she wanted, create a vision board and visualize and feel how she would feel in a new home. I told her to even put flyers round her neighbour’s doors to ask if they knew of an apartment for rent in the area. She was leaving her house for work one day and had mentioned to a neighbour did they know of anything in the area and they advised that the apartment across the street was available. She made a flyer went round and the landlord was there painting. They really liked her so much they didn’t mind that she was on a low income or that she had a small dog. They even asked her what she wanted to pay on the apartment. She was so amazed that the Law of Attraction worked within a couple of weeks of me teaching her. She even ended up with an extra room so she can start her own business.”
<>For example, these negative beliefs are like big holes in your container. Take a container and fill it with water. Water will not stay in the container if it has holes in it. The negative beliefs are like those holes in your container of prosperity. The more holes the less you can have. Unfortunately for many people, their container has nothing to hold at the bottom, forget about the holes.
<>I’m glad my book on using the Law of Attraction for love of a specific person worked for you! You should follow the same steps you followed the first time. It’s okay if you think about him, but you should focus on making yourself happy. Instead of thinking of the feeling of “feeling in love”, think of the emotion of “feeling loved.” That’s what you’re ultimately looking for in your relationship.
<>Thank so much chitownblu! You’re right that getting rid of resistance and attachment are key. Tapping works well for this. Also, remember to focus on what you want. You descussed that you’re aware your desire has not manifested. That’s living from a point of what is, not from what you want. You’re giving energy to creating more of what you don’t want by doing this. It could also be a factor in things not attracting your specific person as your vibration is closer to alignment with not being with him, than being with him.
<>The first time I seriously started working with LOA on a consistent basis was during a time of severe financial strain, so I know what it is like to really feel the pressure of lack of money.  I went from literally living off credit cards to attracting three lucrative freelance writing jobs all in the same week, which led to me making more money than I ever had, so I have seen firsthand what is possible when we can get our mind right.
<>Cutting Short tо Story, I hаvе written mаnу wishes in lаѕt session оf Mау 2016 whеrе I manifested 1 оr 2 wishes within 1 month. I fоllоwеd thе pattern оf Law оf Attraction аnd it'ѕ philosophy in day today life with extreme gratefulness аnd happiness bесаuѕе I love it аnd admire it. Thiѕ August in 2017 аgаin I made mу short term wiѕh list. Frоm thаt уоu wоn't bеliеvе it thаt оut оf mу 11 wishes 4 аrе manifested in mоѕt beautiful аnd magical wауѕ ѕinсе wе аll knоw basic thing thаt " Universe listens tо uѕ whаt wе аѕk fоr аnd delivers it in divine time".
<>While it might sound strange at first, you’ll be better at using the Law of Attraction for money and wealth if you connect with the smell of money. When you do this, you align your own vibration with wealth and abundance. As you do this, imagine yourself as having all the wealth you need. Don’t think about why you want money, or how you wish you had more money. Let your brain believe you are fully abundant, right now.
<>I set his phone on the bathroom counter and without a second thought, threw open the shower curtain, turned off the water, and said; “Get the fuck out.” I watched him pull on his shorts in the hallway, still dripping wet, one leg and then the other as I pointed to the front door. He kissed our son goodbye, tossed his ring in my general direction, and walked out slamming the door behind him. 
<>Hi Elizabeth – thank you for the wonderful insight into attracting an ex. I got your book and have started doing everything you suggest. I could feel my vibrations rising and went to sleep with a wonderful open heart feeling. When I woke up the doubts of his intentions started filtering into my brain. I quickly tried to cover them up with ______ and ______ together forever and we are 1 type of mantra. I switch between what will be will be and positive thought. We lived together f or 7 years and he has moved out. I have left his cupboards ready for him to come back but am worried that I am not getting the detachment thing right. Will it come in time if I just carry on practising everything you have suggested? Thank you for your time and care. JG
<>Take time to get really clear on the amount you are requesting for the Universe and also the time it will take for you to receive it. The Universe LOVES specificity. If you’re not clear on what you want to attract then you will be manifesting by default and all sorts of nasty surprises can appear when you don’t pay attention to conscious awareness. Click here to get my FREE Intention Setting Worksheet. This works great on the night of a New Moon ☽.
<>Think about the strengths and energies that make you unique. When you were a child you thought to yourself “Wow, I am ME. Nobody else is me or can feel the feelings I feel. They’re mine alone. This energy is uniquely my energy.” Then, of course, the world trained you out of this way of seeing things. You wanted to be the same as everyone else (or at least, they wanted you to be the same). Breaking free and removing failure from your vocabulary allows you to follow your bliss with ease.
<>“My friend had found the love of her life not by meeting someone new- but from someone who was already in her life. It reminded me of something I read in a magazine article you’d written- about Cinderella and how that so much of her ‘good’ was already in her life: The pumpkin that became a carriage, the rags that became a ballgown etc.- and that there was no need to ‘go hunting’ for what you want as so much good is here, waiting to be revealed. From observing my friend, it was exactly like that: As she came into her connection, she realised the love of her life was already a good friend in her current experience. She had never seen him in that way before- but in the twinkling of an eye- she saw him in a new, romantic way. And he felt the same. And now they are married and one of the happiest couples I know.
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<>“In the group on Monday I wrote a Universe List of what I wanted including- Please bring me a free foot massage. Yesterday my partner received a message from a friend saying ‘I have a space in my practice- and I have a slot for Anna’ (which is me). She’s a reflexologist and I was pleased- but worried about the price. As if to hear my concerns, I was then told it would be free as the practitioner had been guided to give it as a gift! It was an amazing session- I had it this afternoon- and on the way home, feeling incredible, I walked past a foot massage shop and remembered my Universe List. My reflexology was a foot massage and even more besides… Equally good-feeling is this testimony that the processes really work!”
<>i have been trying to use law of attraction for some time now, specially when it comes to love because there is one specific person that i am in love. but somehow i am doing something wrong because things don’t manifest the way want… i don’t know what i’m doing wrong. i don’t know if it’s my energy that is negative, if it’s me that is not believing enough, if it’s the way i vizualise things… i even made a visualization board, i write and think about the things that i feel grateful for, every night i imagine myself with that person and that person feeling the same way for me as i do for him but it doesn’t seem to be working… this law of attraction process is very hard, how do i know what i’m doing wrong?

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