<>“My daughter had been on my mind for the previous years- stresses with exams, problems with boyfriends- I was going out of my mind. Then a friend brought me along to the Monday evenings. I learnt to hand it all over to the Universe- and get on with my life. At first I discovered that I didn’t have much of a life of my own- but the Universe soon sorted that one out- with a new relationship and new hobbies! Now all this took nearly year- and it wasn’t always easy, but it is working for me. Another thing that happened: At a gym I started going to (another inspiration from the Universe) – I got speaking to someone and somehow the subject of Law of Attraction came up- and he mentioned your group! We both talked about how much it had been a turning point for us and shared our stories. This is what made me write to you, to thank you for all that you are doing.”
<>You should remain in a state of “as if” when using the Law of Attraction for a specific person. When you give attention to what is, you give it power to create more of what is. You should relax and allow your manifestation to occur, as you have always done. It’s a great way to create what you want and, as you release resistance and become more detached, you’ll be able to reach that state more easily.
<>“I have been happily embracing the LOA exercises for many months- as a daily practise, and ‘living’ an improved quality ’emotional life’ as a direct consequence. What I like about the LOA, Abraham & Tracy’s coaching is that I can continue to feel good and I don’t necessarily have to ‘goal set’. My life works well generally and I am busy with my career, a great social life and have several interesting creative hobbies – even with this bursting circus of a life experience- who wouldn’t want to feel great and enhance more daily joy? So, that’s what I focus on in my daily practise – and Wow! …’stuff’ just keeps turning up for me, that I had creatively had ideas about years ago! – like parties, events, products, experiences, work opportunities, people, places and things. I am not focusing on ‘what I want to come to me’ I’m just grooving on the positive and improved feeling….and great ideas I have had in the past are now turning up with either the means for me to roll it out or the full manifested version of a past desire for me to dive straight into. It’s like a wish list you had almost forgotten about until it arrives and then it’s like oh wow I daydreamed about this ages ago! Brilliant! – Abe is correct – ‘Ask and it’s given’ (I) just have to allow it in.”
<>Hi Elizabeth – thank you for the wonderful insight into attracting an ex. I got your book and have started doing everything you suggest. I could feel my vibrations rising and went to sleep with a wonderful open heart feeling. When I woke up the doubts of his intentions started filtering into my brain. I quickly tried to cover them up with ______ and ______ together forever and we are 1 type of mantra. I switch between what will be will be and positive thought. We lived together f or 7 years and he has moved out. I have left his cupboards ready for him to come back but am worried that I am not getting the detachment thing right. Will it come in time if I just carry on practising everything you have suggested? Thank you for your time and care. JG
<>“I wasn’t able to get myself into a place to find love until I attended your workshop; and then I realised I had been trying too hard – but recently I met someone and although it’s new, it feels different to any relationship I’ve experienced before. I can totally put it down to the moment I stopped searching and needing someone; I started fully participating in my life instead of longing for it to be better. I had fun with the Focusing Process and I really ‘got’ Meditation and deep breathing, finally. It wasn’t instant – but trying out the different techniques and finding a way that worked for me was how it happened. I’ve known about the Law of Attraction for about two years and there were times when I wasn’t sure if it was working or if I was doing something wrong – but now I know that although it can take some time, it absolutely works. Thank you for the support when I needed it most.”
<>For one of a million reasons, we feel like we can’t be ourselves. We long to be. We just want to move through the world as we truly are, without the masks. This is especially true when it comes to relationships. If you asked someone to make a list of what he wanted in a partner, I imagine ‘loving me for who I am’ would near the top of anyone’s list, or at least anyone who wants a real, authentic relationship.
<>Think of all the awesome things you may have manifested already, things that came to you out of nowhere, in ways you could not have anticipated, and realize that can happen with money as well, if we are willing to make some space for that trust. You have no idea what inspirations will come to you, what solutions will present themselves, what people you will meet and what opportunities will arise.
<>“I am enjoying a wonderful relationship with a man who may quite possibly be ‘the one’ – and that’s after being single for 13 years. Certainly a big factor was due to regular use of your techniques and your romantic love workshop. I got myself into a position of not needing anyone yet at the same time anticipating the excitement of love – which I learnt was key – and this was accomplished through your teachings. I got on with my life and spent time on my interests and my career and with friends, whilst using your ideas to increase my expectation of love. Yes, there were some times of feeling lonely or doubtful, but I kept on going, supported by the success stories and others at your group, until I met him a through a ‘random’ invite and it’s been lovely ever since.”
<>We have the consciousness that we use during the day when we are awake, it is called the physical mind or the ego, we have a subconscious which we use to dream while sleeping, and we have the superciliary of the higher mind, which is somewhere called The Higher I. The supernatural mind or the higher is the connection of our mind or ego with the consciousness of our soul. The consciousness of our soul is above all. It is the source of the true, ie. objective consciousness which we can have, and which is obtained by the physical mind closed in the body and the senses through the Higher I.
<>Then one day in 2005, I had an “A-ha” moment. “Why couldn’t I be writing for Early to Rise?” After all, for the previous five years I had been a regular contributor to Men’s Health magazine, Men’s Fitness magazine, and several other large fitness publications. And each day Early to Rise published a short health brief in their newsletter. It was the perfect fit.
<>“I was awoken in the morning by a loud industrial noise that was virtually shaking my house. I had a client coming in a few hours and I usually work in silence which is vital for the atmosphere. When I went into my consultation room, the noise was intense. But knowing about the power of ‘changing the subject’, I went to a local cafe and began doing my processes. On the Universe List I put ‘make my consultation go wonderfully and the client be hugely benefited’ and ‘make the atmosphere peaceful and serene’. Then I forgot about it- and got in with focusing in on other important areas in my life. I got back within 15 minutes of the appointment- and the noise was still incredibly loud- but I somehow had a knowing that all be well. With one minute to go, the noise lessened to about half its volume. Then I got a message that my client was ‘on her way’ and a few minutes late. Two minutes later the work outside stopped completely and 10 seconds later my buzzer went. My client entered into the peaceful and serene atmosphere and yes, the consultation went wonderfully!”
<>Then one day in 2005, I had an “A-ha” moment. “Why couldn’t I be writing for Early to Rise?” After all, for the previous five years I had been a regular contributor to Men’s Health magazine, Men’s Fitness magazine, and several other large fitness publications. And each day Early to Rise published a short health brief in their newsletter. It was the perfect fit.
<>“I started applying the Law of Attraction techniques more consistently about two months ago. On a daily basis I have been meditating, making a written list of things that I appreciate and doing the Focusing Process. During this time several areas of my life have positively transformed including getting a new job and my long term partner proposing to me, with both things remarkably happening within the space of a couple of weeks! I also feel much more appreciation for my life in general and there have been several great more day to day experiences such as going for three different meals out and getting given free courses and drinks (as they apologised for a delay in service which I didn’t even really notice as I was having such a lovely time). My fiancée and I are now wanting to attract a lovely home in the country to move in to together and given the other positive experiences I’ve had with the Law of Attraction I feel confident that we can do this!”
<>Another of the best ways to attract money is to ensure you spend the wealth you have on things that really matter. When you live in a way that aligns with your values, you get much money pleasure from spending and develop a much more positive relationship with money. And when you view money in a positive, loving way, you’ll attract more money instantly!
<>Hi Geoff! Thank you for your reply. I do understand the chapter is about getting an ex back. However, what I meant to ask is whether the same rule applies if the person you want to manifest a relationship with is someone you haven’t previously dated. You see I talk to him everyday and he often tends to talk about the girl he is with or unknowingly tells me how I mean a lot to him but only as a friend. And every time that happens I just can’t stop negative thoughts of fear and doubt cropping up in my mind, thus making it difficult for me to let go. So I want to know if I should maintain some distance, perhaps talk less often. The only issue here is that there isn’t really any problem between us. He knows I love him and we kind of sorted it out a couple of months back and have continued to be best friends. I don’t quite have a reason to suddenly cut down on talking to him and I am sure if I do that he would want to know why.
<>Does this mindset of want and lacking sound familiar to you? If this is the case and you continually find yourself worrying about finances, bills, and debt then you need to address these beliefs or lessons that were embedded in your mind within childhood. Strong and negative emotions surrounding money can come to consume your mind. It can also affect how you choose to live. And this could result in nothing but further money worries and a constant wanting for more.
<>My dog is amazing, he is such a joy and so fun and I love him to bits. He was a troubled wee lad and it wasn’t a Disney story for the first 6 weeks but I kept working with Tracy on focusing processes and appreciation lists and daily universals lists that me and my dog were ideally suited and that he was happy and content, living his ideal life. That was 12 months ago and my dog is so well adjusted, happy and the best company ever. His behaviour turned around in no time at all. I have my ideal dog and my dog is nicknamed by my friends and family as ‘the little king’ he landed on his paws.”
<>Gabriel…I have been going for energy healing sessions since years now and have been working on myself…..I must admit that I still have apprehensions on manifesting my soulmate desires and often wallow on self pity despite all the inner work I have been doing…..however, reading this article today has completely opened my heart and mind and given me so much hope and positivity…..you are absolutely right in quoting that our soulmates are within us all along…..I would like to express my heartfelt gratitude to you for writing such an articulate, poignant and powerful article for us…..thank you so much for opening our heart to love and creating our own reality……thank you for telling us that IT IS possible and IT exists for each of us…….much love
<>The key is having clarity, and knowing what it is that you want. Why? So that you can identify it when you see it, feel it and hear it, and – most importantly – so that you won’t be sidetracked into a relationship with a person who is not the highest possibility for you.  A person who is not your soulmate. Remember, there’s no need to settle for less than what you want. It’s like going to a supermarket without a grocery list when you’re feeling very hungry. If you’re anything like me, you may have bought a whole bunch of stuff you did not need but may have forgotten to buy something as basic as milk and sugar, which you really needed.
<>6) Use this time to grow in your ability to be more patient, more loving, more giving, more forgiving and more gentle and kind to yourself.  Get your ducks in a row, explore new hobbies and interests and keep on growing your current friendships.  Continue to work on all your mental and emotional blocks to love and, most importantly, continue to have faith that he or she is out there and that you can’t miss each other.
<>True love is all about being caring about each others needs and desires. Love is affectionate, virtuous, passionate and sweet. But, no matter how you define love, if your relationship lacks support and care, it’s not love. Love is about being with each other during all phases of life – good or bad. Caring is the first and most common trait of being in “Love”.
<>I have some questions about letting go of resistance. Looking back, I could finally let go of resistance by going on lots of dates and making myself exhausted, get sick and tired of trying to find the right guy. And after that moment, I could finally surrender and manifest guys that I actually wanted to be with. So maybe it could be one of the ways that people can let go of resistance? Is this the hard way?
<>I’ll bet a bunch of you reading this are arguing this point with me right now in that beautiful head of yours, but remember what I said earlier about us attracting based on what we feel and believe. So, if you really want to improve your financial situation as quickly and painlessly as possible, you need to start shifting your belief that money trouble is the worst thing that can happen to you, that some horrible fate will befall you if get behind on your payments.
<>One thing I found on a website is the fact that the LOA makes people believe that they are totally in charge of their life which is not true.You think you can do everything with the power of your mind. They forget God’s will and what I’ll add is that they forget the notion of destiny. You will get things when they are within the brackets of you destiny. You may want something badly and you’ll never get it, just because it was not written this way for you. That’s why you can get the small things because they don’t compromise the big lines of your life chart. And I can still go further after my explorations I will soon be able to say that you don’t really attract things, you feel you’ll get them. It’s just intuition.
<>In stopping all other thoughts you also stop resistance. Resistance is the negative emotion you feel when you think about what you want, but in a way that feels bad. It is when you give more attention to what you don’t have, and feel bad, rather than giving attention to what you want, in a way that feels good to you. In both cases you are thinking about what you wish to manifest, however one is focused in a way that allows it manifest, and the other is focused on the lack of what you want, and that keeps it from coming.
<>However, knowing that others have been – and still are – able to make the law of attraction work for them can be a strong motivator: it strengthens our belief  and keeps us focused on what we want to attract. That’s why we have this section dedicated to the LoA success stories – read them, watch the videos, and come back to them any time you feel the need for a morale boost.
<>“The Law of Attraction processes have been so life-changing for me- and I wanted to share the rather magical story of how I met my husband: I’m an artist, and during a particularly powerful meditation, I saw a vivid image of a man. As soon as I came out of the meditation I drew the picture of him, as I’d seen it. I intuitively knew this man was my soul mate- although I had never seen him before. A few months later I was invited to a party. Although I didn’t initially want to go, my friend encouraged me and I went. As soon as I walked in, I instantly recognised the man from my drawing standing across the room- and he seemed to ‘recognise’ me too. We instantly reconnected and have been together ever since, now married for 6 years. It really does sound like one of those Hollywood movies, I know- and it feels like one!”
<>Let’s say you want to make an extra $50,000.00, $100,000.00, or even $1 million dollars more. Or let’s say that you want to release the weight that you don’t want on your body. Or let’s say that you want to find a soul mate that you’re not with right now. It’s not enough just to have the idea, desire or the goal. It’s not enough just to write it down. It’s not enough to have a vision board or to talk about it. What you have to understand is you have to get the conscious mind and the subconscious mind to line up in harmony with each other to create synchronicity and you have to impress it over and over again into the emotional subconscious mind so coherence is created between the two part of your brain.
<>It’s difficult to free yourself completely from doubt, fear or feeling as though you don’t deserve something. Your instinct might try to combat those feelings using negative thoughts like, “Don’t be afraid” or even direct conflicts like, “You deserve this.” Unfortunately, such methods are ineffective and simply don’t work because they reinforce negative thoughts and feelings.
<>“I heard about you back in 2008 from a friend and it was only a few months ago that I found your blog and have read pretty much everything on it along with the success stories. The workshop for me, was exactly what I needed at that moment. It clarified a lot of my past and explained a very simple process that is more than doable. The energy during it was amazing. I’ve been so happy and at peace since then. So thank you for the workshop and also your blog which is great. I also found your teaching style just perfect and my friend agreed. She will be contacting you for your CD. We couldn’t believe how much you shared in just three hours and how you were able to simplify a subject so many tend to over complicate. I’ve been to many workshops etc. with many teachers in the past but your authenticity and ability to just be yourself was so refreshing!”
<>Step 3: It’s time to let the universe know you’re truly ready to manifest your soulmate. Simply coming into a more positive vibrational alignment can certainly help you find love. However, there’s also a specific process you can follow to help you attract love more quickly. These steps will open you up to a soul-deep connection with the specific person you want to find love with:

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