<>2) The Second List: Deal Breakers. It’s now time get clear about what I call the ‘Deal Breakers’.  These are the ‘red lights’ that you want to watch out for when you start meeting people.  This is a smaller list where you identify at least three qualities that if this person were to exhibit, you would not engage in a relationship with them. In other words, the deal would be off.
<>Want to get everything in your life? This meditation will direct you to a secret portal that will help you to use the Law of Attraction to attract whatever you want in your life including success, money, love etc. You will use the Power of Love to heal yourself, your loved ones and eliminate all the negative blocks that are holding you back to achieve more success in your life. You’ll start feeling positive vibrations surrounding you and leave this meditation in a state of bliss.
<>Be sure to start this list by stating whether if your Soulmate is single, straight/gay (yes, you must be that specific) and available for a healthy, loving, committed, long-term relationship (or marriage if that is what you want.) Also, be sure to include that he or she lives close enough to you, and/or is willing to relocate if necessary for the two of you to be together. It is very important that you do not get too attached to this list, but rather release it by saying to yourself, “I welcome this, or something better!”
<>all thanks to the allmighty that he had granted my attraction of getin in touch with a master who had envisioned n manifested the law of attraction n thatz how i had happened to come across you…. jus letme brief you a little detail of myself…. i um trina bhattacharyya from india who since a very little age used to believe in miracles of life…… with the advent of time az i waze growing up got truly inclined towards spirituality n found many of my dreamz manifesting miraculously in reality….. thatz how i even got more attracted towards spirituality n started believing that if anything you desire from the core of your heart youre bound to deserve n get it back into your life…..you wont believe i still have gooseworms wen i realise that unconditionally each n every aspect which i had asked for my dream partner waze manifested in my husband…. but after a while due to some very familial problems i got shattered n torn up n had attracted a disease called gerd….. thatz wen my life coach stepped in my life n i consider her an incarnation of god himself who seem to have changed my entire life …. i waze totally burdened with the shackles of negativity ….. but i waze mesmerised to find that you have exactly reciprocated to what i waze experiencing all through these while….even i used to wonder az to how to unburden myself of all these shackles of negativity…. i just pour my heartiest gratitude to the allmighty to enlighten the darkness with hiz magnificent lamp of love and blessings.. i found myself encumbered with the three imaginery forces so called THOUGHT INTENTION N ACTION WHICH ARE the real keys to my destination…. you only have to engrave these three forces in a line perpendicular to the core of your soul n the rest would be taken care of by the magical divine intelligence so called our universe ….THE UNIVERSE iz an ocean of abundance for everyone we only need to open our arms n be receptive to all the unconditional love n divinity which itz showering all the time upon us with the right understanding n attitude… conquer your fear in any aspect of your life because itz notin except a false evidence appearing real…. only you have the real power embedded into yourself to win a triumph over all the odds n hoist the flag of victory … we all are the purest potential energies created by the allmighty….i greatly acknowledge my teacher n masters like you to have uncaged us with your believes n help us to fly with the beautiful wings of courage confidence n determination to enjoy all the lovely colours of the rainbow…. thankyou
<>“I have been doing LOA exercises as a daily practice for a while now, I had dated from time to time but it was more by default as I hadn’t really done any specific focusing on tidying up my vibe. I am quite independent and I wasn’t searching for a love relationship as such but I was getting a bit fed up with the dating. So, I commenced as part of my daily practice a clearer focus on love in my life, appreciation for the love I had already, how would it feel if I had an ideal love relationship and I added it onto my universe list saying statements like ‘please being me my ideal love relationship’. It was really cute how it unfolded and it unfolded very organically and in no time at all. A friend of mine at work just started to look positively attractive to me, I had always thought he was good looking but I never saw ‘us’ as an option. It was like I had a blind spot about us. As the days and weeks past, he became more interesting, available, talented and gorgeous. It got to the point where I was actually wondering if he was the most gorgeous man alive. It was hilarious! We got together and we get on great. He is just such a great guy and so easy to love. When we got together I did ask him if when we were friends he ever thought we would suit being in an intimate relationship – he said he had always thought we would be great together and he had imagined that our relationship would be a very good union and now we are living just what he had visualized. I think that’s an incredible example of how if you’re not lined up you can’t ‘see’ what’s in front of you even if it’s ideal and that we do co-create with others. I still include positive LOA exercises into my daily practice because I want to enjoy this to the fullest.”
<>After this one, do a general visualization. See yourself already in possession of the things you want – the dream house and car you desire, your yacht or jet depending on your ambitions, think of your huge bank accounts and your safe in the bank, literally of anything that you can imagine. It’s crucial to feel as you already possess these things. Concentrate on the feeling!
<>“The best thing The Law of Attraction Centre has taught me is to really start to make the most of what I’ve got; the life I already have. I had been ignoring the gifts and miracles all around me. From doing this, and counting my blessings for just a few moments every day together with meditation, 2012 has probably been the best year of my life already… And ironically, new experience and people have come into my life at a faster rate than ever. And it’s all since I found your workshops.”
<>i am madly in love with a guy…m crazy about him…it was a no strings attached kinda relationship…but i fell in love with him…he has all the good qualities that i would wanna see in my husband…but when i told him about my feelings for him, he told me that he likes me more than a like but less than love…i am hurt…i love him a lot…we are in touch…but he is’nt giving much time for me…how can i make him love me like how i love him by using law of attraction???…please help me.
<>When you investigate your thoughts and open up to new possibilities, you are in control of your feeling state. This gives you the power to instantly change your feeling state and align with the vibration of the feelings that you actually want to attract. When you’re feeling abundant, you’re going to have to get a bigger piggy bank to put all that money in that you attract.
<>“I heard a conversation which affirmed where I am on my journey at the moment when a girl on the bus was talking to her friend about spirituality and saying about the value of appreciating all of the good that is currently in your life and all of the things that you do have. Another minor but pleasing manifestation was that I was on a coach journey and the coach wasn’t supposed to be stopping for two hours and I suddenly felt hungry. I thought about what I would like to eat and then relaxed thinking that the two hours would probably go quite quickly. Next thing I knew, only about ten minutes later the bus was pulling into a service station and I could buy the food I wanted! These felt like wonderful reminders of how interconnected we all are.”
<>“I was very focused on a particular person and wanting them to like me. Based on what I learnt at a Law of Attraction Centre workshop I decided to practice loving thoughts about what I liked about people rather than thinking about what they thought about me. I spent 15 minutes making a list of the Positive Aspects of a previous partner and the current person I liked. After this I realised that I had felt negative not because of how they did or didn’t feel about me but because I wasn’t thinking lovingly about them. And then guess what, they got in touch and the funny thing was when they did get in touch it was less important as I was already feeling good!”
<>“Thank you for all of your help this year. Your work is extraordinary. I had been single for many years- the occasional date but nothing serious. In July I met a man and we have been enjoying life together ever since. I acknowledge myself for making my inner changes- but credit is seriously due to your workshops and groups; and the space they gave me to discover myself again.”
<>“I was struggling in my mind about something as I was on my way to a meeting when I saw someone struggling to walk along the road because her shoe was broken and walking past her, I realised I had some tape on me. My inner voice whispered ‘go help her’ and despite an immediate argument from my ‘lower level mind’ about how I could look weird or how I didn’t have enough time to go back, I returned and handed some tape to her so she could strap her shoe up. She was amazed and appreciative and in turn, I felt so good. I also realised that this had shifted me out of my own problems in a way that other practices hadn’t. This experience also gave me the determination to fully follow my inner guidance from now on- despite any opposition from my mind- as it was another piece of evidence of how this works.
<>P.s. My Boyfriend did not help me with this. I project managed the whole thing myself, with invaluable help of a carpenter friend. I knew nothing about building industry and all the workers said it can’t be done in 60 days and said how from their years of experience it would take 6 months if i was lucky. We argued and argued until we all saw it MY way and then we got on with it :)
<>Long story short I converted the massive 3 story house into five self contained flats complete with their own utility supplies and turn-key ready in exactly 60 days and made £100’000 profit. Lots of pre planning and lots of drama but it worked! I still have those flats and they are rented out. i withdrew £100’000 of the equity after having the building revalued.
<>“There was someone I liked for a long time and I just wasn’t sure if he liked me back. Well it wasn’t just liking- I was crazy about him… and it was becoming really tiring. The whole situation was annoying me- it was like an addiction. So I put on the Universe List ‘Take away my attachment to Mark’ and ‘Bring me a wonderful partner’. Then, a few weeks ago, he contacted me to say that he had some great news… he was getting married and wanted me as a ‘best man’ type figure!! Whilst initially having a Julia Roberts in My Best Friend’s Wedding moment, I actually felt a strange sense of relief just moments after. Within a day or so my attachment to him has evaporated- I feel genuinely happy for him (and even for her) and strangely wonder what I saw in him in a romantic way- even though he is a great person. I have also learnt things about myself and how this is a pattern I’ve been in before. And, what’s more, I even have met someone else who seems fantastic and actually likes me back. It seemed my attachment had jammed the romance door, preventing anyone from coming in for so many months. It is so amazing that I am starting to realise that everything that happens to me is a gift- and it is wonderful that I can now swiftly see the truth in situations which would have one time floored me and kept me feeling depressed and resentful for many months before I ‘got it’. Thank you, Universe!”
<>I currently graduated High School and things have started to collapse, I question everything and everyone. Sadness and disillusion have become a daily feeling. There’s so much things I’ve planed to do but for some strange reason I feel like I’ve sucked up my own energy, like I’ve killed my own vibe. Anxiety attacks have also manifested, lol I’m going crazy. This is the last thing there is to try, & with all my heart I hope it works.
<>Hi Gabs, i have a long story but i’l cut it. After i said a prayer, talking to the Universe to send me a lady that i will get married to, i met a lady on facebook. She is a Gemini and i’m a Saggitarus. She became so deep in love with me and i culd sense it. But when she understood she was 2years older than me, her love began to undulate. She kept saying that i’m young and once she has a baby or two, she will look like my aunt cos of her size. Prior to our relationship, she has been in several relationshps with men, now she has a perspective bout men not been faithful. I assured her i was different and even if she has a child before that wont matter to me. But she seems to be falling apart. What do i need to do, to convince her of my love and my faithfulness and ensuring her loyalty? I love her and distance is not a barrier in my relationshp with her. Ur article is superb, it has updated my horizon. U can email me ur answers. emamaks2000@yahoo.co.nz. Thanks.
<>I just order your book and looking forward to reattracting my ex and having him commit to me and us get married. I am feeling nervous and have tried everything else and I know what I am vibrating right now is the reason we aren’t together and he keeps getting with other people, so I am committing myself to learn this material and FINALLY working on myself so that I can reattract him and get the love and relationship that I have always wanted with him.
<>“In the group on Monday I wrote a Universe List of what I wanted including- Please bring me a free foot massage. Yesterday my partner received a message from a friend saying ‘I have a space in my practice- and I have a slot for Anna’ (which is me). She’s a reflexologist and I was pleased- but worried about the price. As if to hear my concerns, I was then told it would be free as the practitioner had been guided to give it as a gift! It was an amazing session- I had it this afternoon- and on the way home, feeling incredible, I walked past a foot massage shop and remembered my Universe List. My reflexology was a foot massage and even more besides… Equally good-feeling is this testimony that the processes really work!”
<>Ever notice how travel magazines show a beautiful destination, maybe a white sand beach and azure blue sky? And, there is always a table and empty chair. Your mind is attracted to the empty chair. It wants you to be there. Goals are the same. The law of attraction is energised by the gap between here and there. So long as it is bridgeable (see tip 21).
<>The great thing about being after a feeling is we can conjure it up anytime we want, regardless of what is happening now. What feelings are you seeking? How can you feel that way now? What can you focus on in your present reality that makes you feel abundant? Even though I wasn’t thrilled I was literally living off credit cards, I shifted perspective, and developed a sense of appreciation for having them as an option. I focused on the sense of security I felt from having my rent paid for the month, and knowing I could buy food and was not going to starve.
<>The Universe becomes a far more active partner in helping you create the life you desire when your intentions are specific. You don’t just want money fast; you want X amount of dollars fast or even more. Once I walked into a casino with only $1.00 in my pocket, having forgotten my wallet at home. Amazingly, I walked out of the casino with a sizeable sum of money. I set an intention that I wanted to turn that dollar into $20.00. I could have driven home to get my wallet, but I was already there and decided to invoke the power of the Law of Attraction. By the time the dust settled that day, I had won $2400! Remember, I started with only $1.00
<>“I printed off the photo you have on the Law of Attraction Centre website of the NV Buildings in Manchester and every day at breakfast I used to sit and look at it and imagine how it would feel to live in those apartments, within a month my partner moved into an apartment and when he drove me to his new home, I had told him the story of how I wanted to stay in these particular apartments and when we arrived to his new home to my shock it was the block right next to them.
<>“I have been doing LOA exercises as a daily practice for a while now, I had dated from time to time but it was more by default as I hadn’t really done any specific focusing on tidying up my vibe. I am quite independent and I wasn’t searching for a love relationship as such but I was getting a bit fed up with the dating. So, I commenced as part of my daily practice a clearer focus on love in my life, appreciation for the love I had already, how would it feel if I had an ideal love relationship and I added it onto my universe list saying statements like ‘please being me my ideal love relationship’. It was really cute how it unfolded and it unfolded very organically and in no time at all. A friend of mine at work just started to look positively attractive to me, I had always thought he was good looking but I never saw ‘us’ as an option. It was like I had a blind spot about us. As the days and weeks past, he became more interesting, available, talented and gorgeous. It got to the point where I was actually wondering if he was the most gorgeous man alive. It was hilarious! We got together and we get on great. He is just such a great guy and so easy to love. When we got together I did ask him if when we were friends he ever thought we would suit being in an intimate relationship – he said he had always thought we would be great together and he had imagined that our relationship would be a very good union and now we are living just what he had visualized. I think that’s an incredible example of how if you’re not lined up you can’t ‘see’ what’s in front of you even if it’s ideal and that we do co-create with others. I still include positive LOA exercises into my daily practice because I want to enjoy this to the fullest.”
<>Focus on understanding your part in this overall process, rather than feeling guilty or ashamed. Recognizing how your fears have manifested in your life does not mean that the bad things in your life are your fault. It simply means that the Law of Attraction has responded to the signal you sent out. Just acknowledge that the system works and your new awareness will guide you. No need to shame yourself or even feel responsible.
<>The process of attraction happens at the level of what we feel and believe, and when you don’t set standards and boundaries, this shows you don’t feel very good about yourself, and that you have a lot of crappy beliefs that essentially amount to not feeling good enough, and not being deserving of the best life has to offer. These types of beliefs can mess with various aspects of our life, but can be particularly problematic in the love department. And guess what types of people and situations we attract when we feel this way? Shitty, shitty, shitty ones.
<>When you feel moved to take action from a place of passion and excitement, not stress, then go ahead and let those actions flow through you. It will seem to be more work to stop yourself — you’ll feel like you’re chickening out and holding back if you stay still. Follow your impulses. But don’t worry about the immediate results of those actions. There may be some twists and turns along the way.
<>“I was looking for a way to forgive an ex-partner of mine, and had been trying for over a year. I heard your suggestion of just handing it all over to the Universe and to Life – and asking to see the situation from another perspective, but it seemed far too simplistic to work. However I was exhausted with the way I had been seeing it, as I felt like such a victim and had a lot of resentment. Slightly sceptical of exactly how I would see it from another perspective (I had read many self-help books and seen two counsellors previously and nothing was helping), I finally agreed to give it a go. I just busied myself with “my part”; as you said – which was to meditate and to appreciate my life.
<>I need some advise from you. I would like to say thank you to you. Your article gave me hope. However, here is my story. I am in love with this guy that I know since 2011. We were so close that we were in ‘NO STRING ATTACHED’ kind of relationship and I felt in love with him. Till now I believe he is the one for me but it is really hard because he don’t see me in that way. He cares for me but he always says I will be happier with someone else. I know its him that I always wanted. He is the amazing guy that I really wish to spend my time with. I did visual n all but its been almost a year and there isnt any results yet. I just want him to realise and notice whats he is missing. Want him to give me a chance of being with him. I truely love him since the first I met him. Please revert back to me. Your assistance are much appreciated.
<>I’ll bet a bunch of you reading this are arguing this point with me right now in that beautiful head of yours, but remember what I said earlier about us attracting based on what we feel and believe. So, if you really want to improve your financial situation as quickly and painlessly as possible, you need to start shifting your belief that money trouble is the worst thing that can happen to you, that some horrible fate will befall you if get behind on your payments.
<>Wow Robert I love this article. Visualize the specific money you desire. (Say $10,000) truly feel the emotion of having it now. Most important be grateful to the Universe for providing it, the use the Law of Detachment. Let it go to let it flow, do not worry where or when it will arrive, those are feelings or fear and anxiety. Trust the Universe. Great advice can’t wait to use Step 4.
<>Emotional Charge: Emotionalize that goal (why do you want it, how will it change your life, in what ways will it bring you happiness, etc.). The idea is to increase and amplify the desire for it from a place of the heart. This powerfully imprints the vibration of your goal into your subconscious mind as you take inspired action towards what you want to achieve.
<>The Law of Attraction doesn’t work by just sitting there and wishing for these things to come to you. So I want you to just start by creating a detailed list of every step you’ll need to take to achieve your goals. I guarantee this will make it easier to move into action. To hold you more accountable, feel free to share your action plan with me in the comments and I’ll be sure to follow up with you.
<>“After a long time of avoiding dating because I was finding it more of an endurance test than anything fun – I have had a breakthrough thanks to your coaching. Firstly I am attracting my type physically – and also men who respect me. I am less needy and co-dependent. One of the keys is that I learned how to really respect and value myself – and put that into practice. This is a total new way of being for me – it’s certainly a bright new year for me already – and we’re only a few days in, so thank you!”
<>“Over the last few days I have been really working on getting myself to a place where I am comfortable doing absolutely nothing. Just accepting that this is a vibrational universe and that I don’t have to be taking action all the time to attract what I want. On Friday I managed this well and just felt so relaxed sitting in the garden appreciating. Then without realising it I found I was doing loads of things that I had been procrastinating over for months, and really enjoying it. I ended up having one of the most productive and satisfying days I’ve had for a very long time. All because of allowing myself to feel comfortable doing nothing.”
<>Many of us have had the experience where we keep on attracting the same kind of a person into our lives, and not in a good way! It happens because of the powerful law of attraction, but you don't have to keep on repeating the same mistake. What you need to do is to find a way to bless the past relationships, and to get yourself into a better feeling place regarding past loves, otherwise, you will keep on attracting the same type of a person. This is another topic that is discussed in this e-book.
<>Within days from now you can attract your true love…set up a business that will change the world…get a better job than what you ever imagined possible…start to reclaim your health…rediscover your confidence and connect with the bliss of your true purpose. I’ve seen it happen so many times to people I know and clients of mine. Accelerated learning is a choice that allows you to build all the beautiful, powerful beliefs which will get you there quickly.
<>I sell cheap gemstone beads, and they’re always problematic (quality) and a lot of work. I’m sitting on my porch thinking, “I want to go high end.” But I don’t have the money to buy expensive beads. Two weeks later a former customer emails asking if I want to go into business with him selling salt products. I used to run a warehouse and hated it, so I told him no, but you can invest in my business. He eventually invests $10K, and I buy high end beads.
<>Long story short I converted the massive 3 story house into five self contained flats complete with their own utility supplies and turn-key ready in exactly 60 days and made £100’000 profit. Lots of pre planning and lots of drama but it worked! I still have those flats and they are rented out. i withdrew £100’000 of the equity after having the building revalued.
<>Jim Carey is infamous now for having done this specific thing in his life. In 1985 through 87, Carrey would drive up onto Mulholland Drive in Los Angeles, looking at houses, and he would imagine all of these things in his. He would imagine the big house, the cars, respect from directors, more opportunities than he knew what to do with, and so on. Keep in mind, at the time he was flat broke.
<>“I have been getting a lot of compliments about my body since doing the Focusing Process- in fact more than I can remember ever receiving, especially in such a short time. It makes sense though, because I feel the most confident in this area I have ever felt. I have also being following your work around lining up with a romantic relationship. I was beginning to feel a lot more relaxed around this area of life, when I picked a card from an oracle deck I have saying ‘Loved one’… I never pick that card usually! And then another card from another deck literally flew out: I saw an image of the card in my mind before I turned it over- and I was right: It was another love card, reassuring me that new romance was coming. I can literally sense him around me and so when we do meet, it won’t really be a surprise. Better still, I’m feeling content. I’m not feeling that familiar endless longing for a relationship- whereas before my whole life revolved around ‘trying to find a partner’ and it wasn’t working- and it was making me miserable. I feel good and I anticipate good. Thanks for convincing me that what I want is possible. I look forward to sharing more success stories when I see you at the Glastonbury retreat later this year.”
<>But, once you start seeing your external experience is a mirror of what you feel and believe, you will make the amazing realization that changing your internal world will change what you bring into your life. If you don’t believe you have to settle or compromise, you won’t. If you believe you will find the right person, you will. If you know you don’t have to end up alone, you won’t. Sound too simplistic? Is the skeptical part of you being activated and resisting this? Are you thinking of all your experiences that have ‘proved’ your current set of beliefs, beyond a shadow of a doubt, and saying to yourself that I don’t know what the hell I am talking about? But, this is really all there is to it.Life is so much easier than we make it out to be.
<>When you investigate your thoughts and open up to new possibilities, you are in control of your feeling state. This gives you the power to instantly change your feeling state and align with the vibration of the feelings that you actually want to attract. When you’re feeling abundant, you’re going to have to get a bigger piggy bank to put all that money in that you attract.
<>“I wanted to share my positive experience with the Law of Attraction. After attending the Law of Attraction group, when I got home there was a lady hanging around on my block who’s always causing trouble who I have had anger for in the past. When I got into my flat I wrote a list of her positive qualities like you said and my anger dissolved. It was strange as usually when I am angry with her it can last for days and be quite painful for me, but it went. I guess this may not work quite as fast in all situations but I was surprised and to be honest I was looking for the anger that I had for her but I just couldn’t find it. Also, if I think of the lady now I don’t think of her as I used to, I think of what I wrote on the list so that is amazing. Thank you so much for this tip.”
<>Your thoughts have the power to create, so it is possible that you created this situation, but you can also turn it around. Let go of any worries or fears you have in regards to his ex. Be open to being in a relationship with him again and having him there 100%. Focus on being at one with being the relationship. Keep your vibration high by doing things you enjoy. The higher you can keep your vibration, the faster you should see results using the Law of Attraction for love to attract your specific person.

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